1.9 Preparing for a doctor’s appointment

Living with a life-threatening illness often means many medical appointments. Talking to health care professionals can be daunting. Before visiting the doctor, take some time to prepare for the appointment.

Before the visit

• Write a list of all the questions you both have. Don’t be afraid to ask ‘simple’ questions. (Ask for a longer appointment if you have a lot of questions)
• Make a list of all the care issues you want to discuss
• Make a list of all the medications being taken, including complementary therapies. Note the dose and any side effects
• What to bring? (e.g. test results, scans, blood tests) – check with the doctor’s receptionist
• Record any recent change in condition or symptoms in the diary

During the visit

• Take notes or record the discussion with the doctor
• Ensure there is two-way communication. Tell the doctor everything you know that is relevant.
• Write down any specific instructions
• Clarify anything you don’t understand
• Ask the doctor for printed material or where to find further information
• Ask who you should contact for more help

After the visit

• Review your notes
• Record the next appointment in a diary or calendar
• Call the doctor for test results, if required
• Contact the doctor about changes in the condition or symptoms