
1.9 Preparing for a doctor’s appointment
Living with a life-threatening illness often means many medical appointments. Talking to health care professionals can be daunting. Before visiting the doctor, take some time to prepare for the appointment.
Before the visit
- Write a list of all the questions you both have. Don’t be afraid to ask ‘simple’ questions. (Ask for a longer appointment if you have a lot of questions)
- Make a list of all the care issues you want to discuss
- Make a list of all the medications being taken, including complementary therapies. Note the dose and any side effects
- What to bring? (e.g. test results, scans, blood tests) – check with the doctor’s receptionist
- Record any recent change in condition or symptoms in the diary
During the visit
- Take notes or record the discussion with the doctor
- Ensure there is two-way communication. Tell the doctor everything you know that is relevant.
- Write down any specific instructions
- Clarify anything you don’t understand
- Ask the doctor for printed material or where to find further information
- Ask who you should contact for more help
After the visit
- Review your notes
- Record the next appointment in a diary or calendar
- Call the doctor for test results, if required
- Contact the doctor about changes in the condition or symptoms